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DEAR ABBY: we invested the last 11 years in a emotionally and physically abusive on-again, off-again relationship. We finally got away and am really pleased with myself for carrying it out.
I will be now in deep love with a great man that is new. He’s every thing we prayed for — the deal that is whole. There was just one issue: He’s married.
We knew he had been hitched, but, Abby, the wedding had been phony. Your ex utilized him to be A u.s. that is legal resident. She’s now right right right back in her own home nation, apparently “married” and contains a grouped family members with somebody else, but my boyfriend remains hitched to her.
We don’t understand the entire legalities, but he is stilln’t filing for divorce or separation, despite the fact that he’s constantly telling me personally he’ll. I have already been with him for nearly 36 months now, and I’m sick and tired of wasting my time. We have never ever been hitched, in which he married this girl lower than an after meeting her year.
He keeps telling me just exactly how “full of myselfthat I have nothing to worry about” I am, and/or. But I’m perhaps perhaps not getting any more youthful, and also this guy is really my perfect man. I have actually tried providing him ultimatums, but we enter into arguments that final all night, and now we land in circles yet again. Help! — ANXIOUS IN ARIZONA
DEAR ANXIOUS: In the event that full life you desire includes marriage and children, at this point you really need to recognize your “ideal man” is certainly not willing to provide you with things you need. (more…)